Active Happiness/主动幸福

The Top Matchmaker's Custom-Crafted Guide to a Happy Marriage

国内头牌红娘为你量身定制的幸福婚恋攻略

This is not a crash-course manual designed merely to rush you into a relationship. Rather, it is a book that leads us toward independence, courage, and wisdom, guiding us to harvest a truly lasting and beautiful marriage-and, ultimately, a life of happiness.

As one of China's leading matchmakers, the author draws on two decades of experience in the dating and marriage industry, the rational perspective of a science-minded thinker, and a solid grounding in psychology. By seamlessly integrating the precision of data analysis, the rigor of logical reasoning, and the science of professional expertise, the author helps us pinpoint our true coordinates for happiness. The sincere and powerful words throughout the book make us feel understood, supported, and accompanied every step of the way-inspiring us to summon the drive and courage to pursue the happiness we deserve.

From cover to cover, this book overturns conventional thinking, offering fresh insights and delightful surprises at every turn:

From "highly educated women" to "science-minded men," the cognitive traps of six common types of singles are systematically dismantled.

Hands-on strategies are provided to help us accurately screen for compatible partners and craft the perfect first meeting.

For emotional pitfalls such as attracting toxic partners or having a people-pleasing personality, the book offers practical, effective, and immediately actionable ways to avoid them.

In the pre-marital stage, it helps us assess the practical foundations of marriage, conduct risk evaluations, and truly prepare for the future.

After entering marriage, the original "H = M + R + H" Happiness Model guides us in scientifically managing the three key pillars of a successful marriage: money, relationships, and health.

In sum, this book not only reveals the ultimate secrets to a happy marriage, but also empowers us to rapidly enhance our capabilities-so that happiness is firmly and securely within our control.

这不是一本仅让你仓促脱单的速成手册，而是引领我们在独立、勇敢与智慧中，收获真正持久且美好婚恋关系的人生幸福之书！

作为国内婚恋界的头部红娘，作者凭借20年深耕婚恋行业的经验、理工男特有的理性视角以及深厚的心理学功底，巧妙融合数据分析的精准、逻辑推理的严密与专业知识的科学，助力我们精准定位幸福坐标。书中真挚且有力的文字，让我们时刻感受到被理解、被支持、被陪伴，从而生发出追寻幸福的动力与勇气。

全书颠覆传统认知，处处让你收获新意与惊喜--

从"高知女"到"理工男"，六大脱单困难户的认知陷阱被逐一攻破；手把手传授实战攻略，教我们精准筛选契合对象，精心打造完美初次见面；针对"吸渣"体质、讨好型人格等情感陷阱，给出切实有效、立竿见影的避坑策略；婚前准备阶段，助我们看清婚姻的现实根基，做好风险评估，真正未雨绸缪；步入婚姻后，借助独创的"H = M + R + H"幸福模型，引导我们科学经营金钱、人际关系与健康这三大关键要素......全书不仅揭示了幸福婚恋的终极奥秘，更助力我们迅速提升能力，让幸福稳稳地尽在掌控。