THE MOON WE LOSE WHILE COUNTING STARS

What if the greatest threat to love is not scarcity, but abundance?

In an age of endless options, constant comparison, and effortless access to alternatives, it has become easier to mistake familiarity for replaceability. We may overlook what is rare simply because it has become part of everyday life.

The Moon We Lose While Counting Stars explores why people sometimes fail to recognize extraordinary love while they still have it. Drawing from psychology, philosophy, attachment, and lived human experience, William W. Collins examines how optionality, fear, comparison, and preserved escape routes can quietly undermine devotion.

This is not an argument for staying in unhealthy relationships or romanticizing imperfection. It is an exploration of the difference between novelty and depth, attention and devotion, possibility and accumulated intimacy.

Some relationships are not valuable because they are perfect. They are valuable because two people have created something that cannot simply be replaced.

Do not wait for darkness to teach you the value of the moon.